Women give us solace, but if it were not for women we should never need solace.
Don Herod

Unlike my resource site subNATION, this is my personal space. It's a place to rant a bit, write about the things I see, feel and do, and document my personal journey on this strange road we call BDSM.

The latest leg of this journey began in April, 1996, in an online chatroom, though I think that it really began somewhere far back in my past. Who knows why we are the way we are?

However it is that I got here, I am still learning about myself; my strengths, weaknesses, limits, wants and needs. There's been one particular person who has helped me more than anyone else to do this. He knows who he is. He will always have.......a piece of my heart and a place in my soul. My debt of gratitude to him can never be repaid.

For the record, I am happily married to a vanilla husband, I am not looking for a master and I am sexually monogamous. I play with both men and women and only within a small circle of friends. I like to call myself a "sensation-junkie".

The works below are my random thoughts and ramblings, some scene reports, and whatever else I feel like writing.

The Naming Of Subs	The Naming Of Subs - Part 2
Elitism In BDSM	A Look Back
Pet Peeves	A First Scene
To Catch A Thief	A First Public Scene
R-E-S-P-E-C-T	Rose The Evil Twin
Hot Wax	My Other Sites

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